Most no-contact trackers count “days without them” — which means they name the person you're trying to get out of your head every single time you open the app. The clinical goal of no contact is to reduce rumination; a counter built that way quietly does the opposite.
So this one counts days of choosing you, and it never resets. Same number, completely different thing to look at.
Once there's a count you can turn it into an image or copy a link to it. Both were built around a rule the rest of this category doesn't keep: the number never reaches a server, including ours.
The link puts your count after the #, which is the one part of a URL browsers never transmit — so it isn't in our logs, and it isn't in the link preview that WhatsApp or iMessage or Discord generates when you paste it. The card is drawn by your own browser rather than requested from us as an image. The practical upshot is that we could not tell you what your number is if you asked.
The card shows a banked count and nothing else — no name, no ex, no projection of a day you haven't reached yet. That last part matters more than it sounds: because the count can never go down, a card you shared can never turn into evidence against you later, which is not true of any streak that resets.
Not here. We think resetting to day one is both inaccurate and harmful — the days you didn't reach out still happened, and framing a slip as a total reset is what turns one text into a week of them. Change the date only if you want to.
Most guidance says 30 to 90 days depending on the relationship. The first two weeks are usually the hardest, and somewhere past 60 people tend to notice they have stopped counting. We are not going to put a number on how you will feel on a given day.
No. The date lives in your browser's local storage on this device only. There's no account, no email capture, and nothing is sent to a server.
No, and this is the one technical detail worth explaining. The number rides in the part of the link after the # symbol, which browsers never transmit — it is the one piece of a URL that stays on your machine. The image is drawn by your browser, not fetched from us. We could not tell you what your number is if you asked, and neither could anyone whose server the link passes through.
If you're here at 2am with your thumb over their name, the counter isn't the thing that will help. Read why no contact feels impossible at 2am or should I text my ex instead.